The adventure to finding yourself is a great road, and I used to think that I wanted to teach the art of public speaking. After all, public speaking is :Mans Biggest Fear.
Then I realized public speaking is actually NOT mans biggest fear. In fact, having a fear of public speaking is the last stop on the train, and you don’t want to get off the train, so you say, “No, I’m too scared of public speaking.”
Now ten thousand trainers respond, “I will help you overcome your fear of public speaking.” And how do they do that?
The trainers bring you together with a bunch of other people who are afraid of public speaking, and they make you public speak.
Thats like taking a person who is frightful to death of spiders, and making them hold a spider!
But trainers will tell you different. They will tell you that you learn the art of speaking in a controlled environment. That you will learn how to identify your message and bring it to the world.
Whatever the case, it is easy to open up your heart to a bunch of people with the same fear, because they are there for the same reason. Then you tell yourself you have overcome their fear of public speaking. Then you stop speaking for an extended amount of time, and even though you may not admit it. You still fear public speaking.
Just like the saying goes—– there’s no such thing as a halfway crook.
Now let’s imagine backing that train up. You go back one stop. Then you back up another stop. And you keep backing that train up until you get to the very first station. This is your core, your values, and the place most people are scared to look at.
Then you do a core transformational change, and a core transformational change is instilling YOUR core values into YOUR soul. Now you find purpose and meaning. You find motivation, and you will notice how your life becomes different, because you become different, because you know exactly what you stand for. And if you go through life fully and completely true to YOUR core values, you may want to embrace public speaking as a means to share whatever message you were meant to deliver!
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